by Gabe Saglie, Senior Editor, Travelzoo
story published in the Santa Barbara News-Press on 12/8/16
‘Tis the season for holiday parties. And while picking out just the right ugly sweater to wear is important, for many, what bottle of wine to bring is even more so. People float a lot of etiquette rules. But as with any rule, they’re meant to be broken, especially since wine, and the experience around wine, is so personal. So here are some rules of thumb I’ve developed over the years, in the event they help you this holiday season. And if they don’t, hey – it’s wine. Just drink it.
What to
Bring
Holiday
parties and holiday dinner tables are defined by their eclecticism – there’s a
lot going on. Lots of flavors, lots of
textures, lots of colors. So I say go
with bubbles. Sparkling wine is safe
because it’s what you open to get a party started, but great bubbles can also
flow easily throughout a meal and well into the night. Sparklers also denote revelry, which is what
this time of year is all about: we should all hope that the effervescence in
the glass spills into the lives of all around us! That said, you can make an argument for red,
since a pinot or a merlot or a zinfandel matches the hues all around. And you can make an argument for white,
especially if you know that’s what your hostess prefers. What’s more, don’t we all dream of a white Christmas? So the short answer: there’s no wrong answer.
How Many to
Bring
Any other
time of year, my wife Renee and I feel totally comfortable showing up with just
one bottle. When we’re talking holiday
parties, though, we like to up that to two.
One white and one red is a nice way to mix things up, though it’s less
about colors and more about making sure there’s enough to go around. It’s amazing how quickly wine can flow during
a feast (and how wide smiles get when they see you walk in the door
double-fisted)! That said, no one is
going to show you the door if you bring just one bottle of your favorite
cabernet, nor if it’s a six-pack. So,
again, the short answer: there’s no wrong answer.
My wife’s
favorite wine these days is a Santa Barbara County pinot noir that I’ve been
finding on sale lately for under $15.
Thank you, God! But an etiquette
rule stickler once told me I should spend between $30 and $40 on a bottle to
bring to a Christmas fete. Pshaw! Sure, that’s a very dependable sweet spot –
you can find a ton of great wines, especially local ones, in that price range. But why would I not share with my friends
that great, delicious $15 bottle that happens to be a bargain? More than price tag, focus on the story: tell
your host about who made it, about the time you first sipped it, about how it
(just like the invitation to this party) always brings a smile to your
face. Even better: track down the
winemaker (easier to do than you’d think in a small, informal wine region like
Santa Barbara) and have them sign the bottle.
That turns a $15 gift into a valuable and memorable gesture. Of course, you’re always welcome to bring
that winemaker's more limited-production $60 bottle. SO, once more, the short answer: there’s no
wrong answer.
To Open or
Not to Open
Etiquette
experts will tell you never to expect your host to open the bottle of wine you
bring. It’s a gift, that’s it. Fie, I say. I will admit that I’m expecting
my wine contribution to be opened. A
little has to do with me wanting to ensure that there will be at least one wine
at this party I’ll enjoy drinking. But
much more has to do with the notion of sharing, a very holiday season-friendly
notion, no? If the wine is meant to be a
special gift, meant to be stored away for a later special occasion, meant for
that trip I know you’re taking next month, well then I’ll say so. Otherwise, imagine a shiny new corkscrew
hanging around the bottle I’ve brought.
Indelicate? Yes, for some. But I’ll remind you of my favorite short
answer: there’s no wrong answer.
To Regift or
Not to Regift
When a
winemaker gifts me a bottle he’s made, I never regift. When anyone gifts me a bottle that comes with
a sentimental meaning, or a special story, I never regift. When I’m gifted a bottle that’s got my name
written right on it with ink I can’t erase, I never regift. Otherwise, the beauty of wine is that it’s
the gift that keeps on giving. Even if
you brought it over because you were running late and it was the closest thing
to the door as you rushed out, I’m going to be happy with it. I will enjoy it with a smile. And maybe, just maybe, I’ll regift it,
too. Doesn’t matter. It’s no coincidence, after all, that a bottle
of wine fits almost perfectly into a stocking.
If you
disagree, of course, I fall back on what a wise man once said: there’s no wrong
answer. Because, like I said at the
beginning: hey – it’s wine. Just drink
it.
Merry
Christmas!
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